Reading
Written for adults who already know they’re neurodivergent and are mostly wondering what to do about how much socialising costs.

Executive Dysfunction and Dating: When Starting Gets Stuck
What executive dysfunction can mean for replies and making plans, plus clear ways to say “I care, and starting is stuck.”
Hiki App Review: What It Costs and What You Get Free
What the Hiki app actually costs, what the free tier does and does not include, and what its own store reviews say — checked against both app stores on 20 August 2026.
What Is Hyperfixation? What It Can Mean in Dating
A clear hyperfixation definition, how it differs from hyperfocus and special interests, and what it can mean when dating or focusing on a person.
Making Friends as an Autistic Adult
Why adult friendship is hard to start and harder to keep when socialising costs you energy, and what actually helps.
What a RAADS-R Score Actually Means
What a RAADS-R score meant in the original 2011 study, what a later clinic study found when it was checked against real diagnoses, and what it cannot tell you.
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and Dating
What rejection sensitive dysphoria can mean during reply gaps, and how to agree on a communication rhythm before uncertainty takes over.
Unmasking Around People You Trust
What masking costs, why dropping it is not a switch you flip, and how to find out whether a specific person is someone you can be unguarded with.
What to Look for in a Neurodivergent Dating App
A practical way to judge whether a dating app supports your communication style, sensory needs, social pace, and relationship goals.
That is everything published so far. We add a guide when we have something worth saying, not on a schedule.